Once you’re dead it’s not your decision. So if you suicide bomb, you’re dead and none of the other deaths can be blamed on you. You’ll die first because stuff is strapped to you.
You decided to blow yourself up around other people. They didn't choose to be near you. So it's like organ donation in exactly no way. No one is forced to accept organs you opt to donate. It's a choice made freely.
If you don't want to donate organs, just say so it's fine. Don't make up some BS ethical dilemma.
Ethics is very important. People will just cut up other people and make another Frankenstein's monster of a creature. The scientists never stopped to ask if they should. In moments where ethics discussions are most warranted there are always folks like you trying to shut them down.
