Your VPS provider likely uses servers with ECC RAM, this home server doesn't. For most people it doesn't seem to matter but for me it does - a home server where I store my data needs to have ECC RAM.
ECC RAM protects against bit flips (a bit changing to the wrong state). These can be caused by electric or magnetic interference. A pixel of a picture suddenly having the wrong color because of a bit flip is not that bad but some day an important file might end up corrupted because of one. I want to sleep well at night not having to worry about silent data corruption so ECC RAM it is. See here for more information: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/ECC_memory
True! Unfortunately, an enterprise machine is more likely to have considerable power draw and quite possibly be much louder. I have a 2013 Apple Mac Pro (trashcan) that uses ECC. They're also cheap, small, and quiet.