> I am referring to an email provider that uses its own domain
Well, where do you think they get their domain from? The same place you do, a registrar. You're just adding a layer.
For example, you mention hey.com.... do a `dig soa hey.com` and you'll see they're registered w/ cloudflare. If you register with cloudflare too, you will have the same chance of having your domain ripped away from you as hey.com does.
The email service provider isn't particularly special in that sense. That said, it is true that there's a lot about infrastructure people can use help with.
So, if you're not familiar w/ technicalities such as these I wouldn't blame you for outsourcing. It's a big world and we can't do it all ourselves. Good luck!
> do a `dig soa hey.com` and you'll see they're registered w/ cloudflare
Sorry, this should be a whois search to see their registrar, the dig will show you who provides their DNS. In hey.coms case both are the same.... cloudflare.
My point remains the same though. The worry of losing your address should remain largely the same because email depends on dns.
> The worry of losing your address should remain largely the same
You should actually worry more about losing your address because now there are two people who can screw you... the ESP (email service provider) _and_ their registrar.
If you hire the ESP to host email on your own domain though (or self host), then you can screw yourself (this is always a possibility) or the registrar can screw you... but you can always just switch ESPs if they're criminals or incompetent. This is what I was referring to when I said this:
> just shuffling things around (probably in the wrong direction).
... in the first reply. Phew... what a long strange trip! I hope the picture is clearer now.
Now I have to leave you to your own devices, sorry.
Don't worry about it - clearly I am not explaining it well enough for you to understand. It is a well documented security concern, so feel free to do your own research on why as we are just going in circles here.
Well, where do you think they get their domain from? The same place you do, a registrar. You're just adding a layer.
For example, you mention hey.com.... do a `dig soa hey.com` and you'll see they're registered w/ cloudflare. If you register with cloudflare too, you will have the same chance of having your domain ripped away from you as hey.com does.
The email service provider isn't particularly special in that sense. That said, it is true that there's a lot about infrastructure people can use help with.
So, if you're not familiar w/ technicalities such as these I wouldn't blame you for outsourcing. It's a big world and we can't do it all ourselves. Good luck!